...of (look down) on someone else; feeling oneself more superior than another. You would never want to tell a homeless...you mentioned is -------- You are pathetic. ----------- pathetic means laughable, absurd, or pitifully inferior...
... self-pity. Not an attractive emotion. What renders it pathetic, in the good instead of the bad sense, is the sinister diminution of the time concept...
... negative comment just because I live in the US. That's pathetic!