you (can) catch more flies with honey than (with) vinegar
- it is more effective to be polite and flattering than to be hostile or demanding
- ph.it is more effective to be polite and flattering than to be hostile or demanding
... be nice to people, if you are nice to peiople (sweet) then more people (flies) will like you ~ (the vinegar in the context means "dont be nasty") 這是對待朋友的一個態度...
... words make no friends; a spoonful or honey will catch more flies than a gallon of vinegar." Even though friendship isn't a ceremony, but neither can't civility...
這句完整的說法是『You can catch more flies with honey than with vinegar』（蜂蜜能比醋引來更多蒼蠅） 英文的解釋是：... snow job. Catherine: More flies with honey.